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Saturday, July 9, 2011

Someone Like You

While I'm downloading Adele's "21" Album, I thought I would write something. I couldn't do anything other than this because downloading slows my internet surfing. So yeah, I'm here typing down anything and everything that's running inside my mind right now. Welcome to my fickle and chaotic brain. I think my neurons (medical term for brain cells) are kind of crashing against each other because I can't seem to organize my thoughts. However, this is not your anatomy subject so I'll talk about what's playing on my iTunes application as of this moment instead. The song is called Someone Like You by Adele. Well, I heard this one several times for like 3 weeks now but today is the first time I learned to appreciate it. You can google the lyrics (grins). I saw its video on YouTube and Adele said the message of the song goes something like she's imagining that she's 40 years old and she sees her ex-boyfriend happily married with someone else. She, on the other hand, is alone. Well it taught me one thing - always think about the decisions you're going to make when it comes to relationships because one day, you might regret what you did or didn't do. When we are mad, we have this tendency to suggest a break-up (I plead guilty you honor.) I have a problem with regards to handling my anger towards my boyfriend. When I'm pissed, I immediately ask him to go away like I don't ever want to see him again - for good. But later on, when the anger had faded, I'll regret it. And I don't know but I guess I'm just lucky enough that none really left for good. Maybe they knew me too well that they think I'm just mad that's why I asked for a break-up. I know I have to change that attitude because maybe one day, I get to meet the one for me and then we would argue and then I would suggest a break-up and then he'd take it seriously and really leave me and then the anger would subside BUT he's already gone and I can do nothing about it anymore. So the next time I'd get mad,silent treatment will do I guess. 

Since I'm blabbing about the song, I'm going to quote my favorite line/s. Well, it's the chorus. Isn't it always the best part? It goes something like:

Nevermind I'll find someone like you.

I wish nothing but the best for you too.
"Don't forget me," I begged.
"I'll remember," you said.
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead.

Just listening to her sing, I could feel pain in my heart like it happened to me too. It's just funny how life plays with us. One day you're both happy, the next day it's over. You don't know what's going to happen next. You could just wish that the butterflies you're feeling and the happiness your special someone is giving you would last longer and hopefully would never ever end. But then at the back of your mind, you should know that nothing is permanent in this world. And that some people are just meant to fall in love but aren't meant to be together. Sad, I know, but we can't control it. The best solution? Seize every moment and save every happy memory. And always bear in mind that when God takes away someone from you, He's going to give you someone better.

Adele has other awesome songs too by the way.